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The Financial Guilt trap

Yesterday I had a long conversation with a childhood friend Sisi A who wanted a shoulder to cry on and a listening ear to vent. It was obvious that she was overwhelmed by the financial obligations she is responsible for monthly and could not see an end to it. Frustration has set in and in her words, “it feels like I toil for 30days and empty all into a basket”. Life held no appeal for her and the hopelessness in…

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I woke up early today excited over all I get to do before the clock strikes midnight. I have responsibilities to fulfill today.  I am important. My job is to choose what kind of day I am going to have. Today I can complain because the weather is rainy or …  I can be thankful that the grass is getting watered for free. Today I can feel sad that I don’t have more money or…  I can be glad that…

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Friends are great to have, hold and love. I often imagine how boring our walk through life would be without the spice of friendship. Friends are priceless as they complement every aspect of our lives, they often serve as our adviser, loyalist, stylist/designer, experiment specie, gossip and mischief mate, merry and ‘waka’ partner, and the list is unending.  Friends come in different shades, most are dependable while a few others are what we often refer to as ‘fair weather’ friends.…

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