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A TOAST TO SINGLE MOTHERS

Posted on March 30, 2014

Happy are those children who have a mother to whom they can pour out their hearts and always count on her understanding, and a father in whose strength and loyalty they are so confident that they seek his advice and help all their lives. Many people long to be such parents to their children, and could be, if only they possessed enough wisdom and love. – Eberhard Arnold I love this quote by Eberhard Arnold. It adds credence to the role…

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A CHRISTMAS TRADITION

Posted on December 29, 2013

“Mummy see Christmas!” My daughter screamed out in excitement and for the third time. Her voice was now a notch higher and her hands stretched as she pointed through the window of our moving car. This excitement was not usual and so I stepped on the brakes slowly to get a good view of what she was pointing at. They were Christmas decorations on buildings. I smiled as I told her they were Christmas decorations and taught her to pronounce…

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PEACE TALKS – The Battle for Supremacy

Posted on November 4, 2013

I can’t help but write about the event of this evening. An exciting and thought provoking incident! I came into the living room with the intention to lounge – sit, stretch my legs and watch the television till sleep comes. But just as my butt hit the cushion, my ladies came bustling to possess their choice and coveted spot – mummy’s laps! Whoever settles in first ensures she takes full possession of the whole space with no intention of sharing.…

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Make Your Heart a Safe Place for His

Posted on September 16, 2013

TSPOON93 is an email address I subscribed to. They send me inspiring mails daily. Sometimes after reading through I feel obligated to share, like this piece below. You’d think I would know everything by now. Or at least everything about him. But here we were married for over 20 years and I was finding out something I never knew. A story he’d never told another living soul. Not until me. Not until now. We’d simply been sitting there, quietly cuddling and chatting…

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PRAYING PATTERN

Posted on September 10, 2013

Over the weekend my kids were down with a bout of infection which made them vomit. Each child took turn vomiting such till it looked like they were competiting. This got me scared, as it went on for two days. Hold on! Before you infer on the possible causes, no new food was introduced and appropriate hygienic standard maintained. So Mister & Missus ‘case reviewer’ hold your peace. lol! To this, we eventually paid our pediatrician a visit. Case closed!…

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GRAND MOM IN THE MAKING

Posted on September 7, 2013

Were you ever asked this question – Who is a grandmother? As I read through an extract taken from papers written by a class of 8-year-olds, I began to imagine what I will be like when I eventually become a grand mom! Take a peep and feed your imagination! A grandmother is a lady who has no little children of her own. She likes other people. A grandfather is a man grandmother. Grandmothers don’t have to do anything except…

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Looking Beyond … II

Posted on July 31, 2013

“I can’t say if the decision to be Mr. Patis’ replacement was a blessing or a trial of faith. I have been under immense pressure to correct and explain the mistakes made by my predecessor”. Chike said covering his face with his hands and letting out a weary sigh.It was as if scales fell off my eyes. I saw the sadness in his eyes and the droop of his broad shoulders. Yes! My eyes were finally opened to see my husband’s pains.…

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LOOKING BEYOND … 1

Posted on July 18, 2013

My heart felt like exploding and I was literally boiling within as Chike said those words. The same excuse as last week – “Bidemi dear, please can we do this some other day, I feel tired today”. How can a loved one hurt you so much and in ignorance! As I stood by our family size bed, I fumed with anger searching Chike’s face for any sign of reluctance, lie or even infidelity (umh! the power of the mind)“why are…

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STEP BY STEP…

Posted on March 13, 2013

My chicks are all grown and are out of my nest! Waooh!! Its amazing how fast they have grown. Didi was one year two weeks ago and Mimi clocked three years yesterday. Once upon a time, I could give anything to have Mimi take a walk (she was crawling then *winks*) with me or even have a meaningful conversation with me! Today, after achieving all these milestones and many more, I now constantly pray for my “me time”, space and…

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ONLY A MOM!

Posted on March 9, 2013

Mummy, mom, mama, mami, mma, nne, or ma are all variations of the word mummy, a referral or name of endearment for a birth or surrogate mother, an elderly woman or any woman who plays the role of a mother over another. The only creation with the unmatched ability to turn an abode into a warm, loving and inviting home. Only a mom has the supernatural ability to nurture, love and watch over her own with fierceness. She sees success…

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I am a 24/7 wife, mother of 3 and a career mum! I live in Lagos, Nigeria and love to cook, write, play and laugh! Everyday life events, the growth process and milestones in my children inspire my writings. I am passionate about raising children who will love passionately, live purposefully and positively transform and impact their world. Come, read and enjoy my journey through motherhood, learn from the practical experiences and tips on raising confident children; plus loads of motherhood tidbits, quick fixes and soul-lifting stories with a tinge of humour. I will also share how I navigate the daunting task of building a demanding career and raising a young family full of fun and excitement. My everyday mantra is 'live intentionally'. Welcome to my world!!!